Adoleshent\u00ebt e kuptojn\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb kur dikush sillet mir\u00eb me ta, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb do ta kthejn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb studim i ri sugjeron se arsyeja pse adoleshent\u00ebt shpesh duken m\u00eb \u201cegoist\u00eb\u201d nuk lidhet me munges\u00ebn e ndjeshm\u00ebris\u00eb, por me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si funksionon truri i tyre n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sipas studimit t\u00eb publikuar n\u00eb eLife, t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb jan\u00eb po aq t\u00eb aft\u00eb sa t\u00eb rriturit p\u00ebr t\u00eb dalluar kur dikush \u00ebsht\u00eb i sjellsh\u00ebm apo bashk\u00ebpunues. Problemi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb te perceptimi, por te reagimi. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera: e shohin mir\u00ebsin\u00eb, por nuk ndihen aq t\u00eb motivuar ta kthejn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb studim mor\u00ebn pjes\u00eb 261 persona, mes tyre adoleshent\u00eb 14-17 vje\u00e7 dhe t\u00eb rritur 18-30 vje\u00e7. Ata u vendos\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb, t\u00eb njohur si \u201cdilema e t\u00eb burgosurit\u201d, ku duhet t\u00eb zgjidhnin mes bashk\u00ebpunimit dhe p\u00ebrfitimit personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rezultatet treguan se adoleshent\u00ebt bashk\u00ebpunonin m\u00eb pak se t\u00eb rriturit, sidomos n\u00eb rastet kur pala tjet\u00ebr tregonte vazhdimisht sjellje pozitive. Pra, edhe kur dikush ishte vazhdimisht korrekt dhe bashk\u00ebpunues, ata nuk e rrisnin nivelin e bashk\u00ebpunimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, kur dikush i \u201ctradhtonte\u201d, adoleshent\u00ebt reagonin po aq shpejt sa t\u00eb rriturit duke u t\u00ebrhequr. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ata e kan\u00eb mir\u00eb pjes\u00ebn \u201cmbrojt\u00ebse\u201d (ndalojn\u00eb kur dikush sillet keq), por pjesa tjet\u00ebr (t\u00eb kthejn\u00eb mir\u00ebsin\u00eb vet\u00eb) zhvillohet m\u00eb von\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pra, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje \u201ct\u00eb qenit t\u00eb k\u00ebqij\u201d, por nj\u00eb faz\u00eb zhvillimi. Adoleshenca \u00ebsht\u00eb periudha kur njer\u00ebzit m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb balancojn\u00eb interesat personale me ato t\u00eb grupit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sipas studiuesve, nj\u00eb nga m\u00ebnyrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsohen t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb dallojn\u00eb q\u00ebllimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, por edhe t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb vler\u00ebn afatgjat\u00eb t\u00eb reciprocitetit dhe drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Adoleshent\u00ebt e kuptojn\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb kur dikush sillet mir\u00eb me ta, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3785,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[148,153],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3784","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lajme","8":"category-magazina","9":"cs-entry","10":"cs-video-wrap"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3784"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3784\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3786,"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3784\/revisions\/3786"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3785"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sotpost.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}